Thomas J. Foley

September 13, 1935 ~ January 22, 2017
Thomas J. Foley, 81, died Sunday morning, January 22, 2017 at home in Danvers surrounded by his dedicated family. He was the loving husband of Dolores A. “Dee” (DeMatteo) Foley, with whom he shared thirty-eight years of marriage.
Born in Dorchester on Sept. 13, 1935, he was the son of the late Darby and Mary (Connolly) Foley. He was raised in Dorchester and was a graduate of Boston Latin School, Boston College, and Saint John’s Seminary.
Following priestly ordination, Tom was assigned to Saint Jerome Parish in South Weymouth and as a chaplain at Melrose-Wakefield Hospital. Realizing he was being called to life with a family, he left his priestly ministry and was employed at Malden Catholic High School and as a social worker for the Commonwealth of Massachusetts.
A longtime Danvers resident and communicant of Saint Richard Church, Tom was a loving and dedicated father and a consummate parent volunteer at Saint Mary of the Annunciation School, Saint John’s Prep, and Nazareth Academy. He willingly donated his time to many community organizations.
In addition to his loving wife, he leaves three children, Michael, Angela, and Christina Foley, all of Danvers, a brother, Jeremiah Foley of Tucson, Arizona, and several nieces and nephews. He was predeceased by his siblings James and John Foley, and Mary Connolly.
His Funeral Mass will be celebrated on Thursday, January 26, 2017 at 9AM in Saint Richard Church, 90 Forest St., Danvers. Relatives and friends are invited. Visiting hours are Wednesday from 4-8PM in C.R. Lyons & Sons Funeral Directors, 28 Elm St., Danvers Square. Burial will be private. In lieu of flowers, donations in Tom’s name may be made to the Center for Older Adult Health, c/o Brigham & Women’s Hospital, 75 Francis St., Boston, MA 02115.
Dee,my family was sad to hear the passing of your husband.Please know we are thinking of you and your ..family…May he rest in peace….Gail & Ed Collins
Sending all of my love to the Foley family, one of the most beautiful examples of love I have ever witnessed. May you all find comfort in your many wonderful memories of this amazing man and beloved husband and father. Blessings and prayers to you. With Love, Laura
I’m so sorry for your loss. Thinking of you all sending hugs xoxox
Dee&family,,,so sorry to hear about Tom.God Bless you all.Gail &Ed Collins
Sending love to all of you .. I will always have nice memories of Tom, he was always so easy to chat with and always made you feel comfortable. I will place your family on our rosary board today.
Catherine Sabatini
You were a true friend in Latin School, the Seminary, and after ordination. I still remember you, and wish I could have risen above my own situations, and been with you always. Rest in Peace Tom. Duck when you see Darby. I wish this from Florida, and will be at your Mass in spirit.
Paul Greene
Tom was a gentleman and a “gentle” “man”. He is missed by all who knew him.
Our sincerest thoughts and prayers go out to your family. Shelly and I are deeply saddened to hear this news. Your family and the Day/Ames family will always be inextricably linked by love and friendship, as such, we share with you the feeling that comes with the loss of a family member. Tom will be sorely missed. We are lucky we got to share part of our lives with him. May he Rest In Peace and may God bless your family.
Deepest Sympathies,
Skip and Shelly Day
Navarre, FL
Angela, I’m so sorry for your loss. Please accept my deepest sympathies for you and your family; and may people and time treat you kindly and gently during your grief.
Ken Marsh
Dee,
So sorry to learn of your loss. It’s a tough time. Let’s catch up soon.
Hugs,
Norene Gachignard
Dee & family please accept my deepest sympathy for the loss of your husband & father Ann whittredge