Brother Cosmas Rubencamp

brother cosmas rubencamp
Brother Cosmas Rubencamp, C.F.X., of Xaverian House in Danvers, Massachusetts, died on Friday, May 5, at the Brentwood Nursing and Rehabilitation Center in Danvers. Born in 1932 as Harry J. Rubencamp in New York City, Brother Cosmas was the son of the late Henry A. and Elizabeth C. (Power) Rubencamp. He received his elementary education in New York and met the Xaverian Brothers at Good Counsel Annex of Cardinal Hayes High School in the Bronx. He transferred to the St. Joseph Juniorate in Peabody, Massachusetts, a preparatory school for young men interested in joining the Xaverian Brothers, and graduated in 1950. He entered the Xaverians that September 19 at the Sacred Heart Novitiate in Fortress Monroe, Virginia, and received the religious habit and the name Cosmas on March 19, 1951. He began his college education at Xaverian College in Silver Spring, Maryland, in 1952, and received his B.A. in Latin and Greek from the Catholic University of America in 1956, followed by a Master’s and Ph. D. in Theology from the Catholic University. After graduating from college, Brother Cosmas began his professional career as a member of the faculty of John Bapst High School in Bangor, Maine. Besides his teaching and extracurricular assignments at John Bapst, he taught Greek at the Bangor Theological Seminary, and began graduate studies at the University of Maine in Orono in 1957. In 1958, Brother Cosmas was assigned to the faculty of Ryken High School in Leonardtown, Maryland, for three years, before becoming a Lecturer and Chair of the Religious Studies Department until 1969 at Xaverian College in Silver Spring, Maryland. He was an assistant professor at Georgetown University in Washington, DC, from 1968 to 1971, when he became the Director of Campus and Young Adult Ministry for the Diocese of Richmond, Virginia, a position in which he served for thirty-one years. In Richmond, Brother Cosmas and his good friend Fr. William LaFratta served students in an unusually large number of colleges and universities. Under his leadership and coordination, the diocese developed an impressive network of ministries in local campuses and locations, as well as diocesan-wide programs and structures for this critical age group. During these years, Brother Cosmas also became involved with new outreach ministries to vulnerable and underserved populations, including the diocesan Haitian ministry and ministry to sexual minorities. He made innumerable trips to Haiti and was formally made the diocesan Coordinator of Haitian Ministry in 2002. He continued as a volunteer in this ministry after his retirement from the diocesan staff in 2005 until he relocated to Xaverian House. Besides his Xaverian Brother confreres, Brother Cosmas is survived by his sisters Bette Rapa and Susan Gilmore, as well as nieces, nephews, former colleagues, friends and students. Visiting hours for Brother Cosmas will be held on Wednesday, May 10, in the Campus Ministry Center, Xavier Hall at St. John’s Preparatory School in Danvers, from 1:00 to 3:00 p.m. The funeral liturgy will be held in the St. John’s Preparatory School Chapel, Administration Building, 72 Spring Street in Danvers, at 3:30 p.m. on Wednesday, followed immediately by his burial in the Xaverian Brothers Cemetery at St. John’s Preparatory School. In lieu of flowers, donations in his memory may be made to the Xaverian Brothers Retirement Fund, 4409 Frederick Ave., Baltimore, MD 21229. Arrangements are by C.R. Lyons & Sons Funeral Directors, 28 Elm St., Danvers. www.LyonsFuneral.com.

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  1. Brother Cos was one of the finest people i have ever known. His work on behalf of gay and lesbian people here in Richmond laid the groundwork for much justice that has been accomplished. He will always be remembered as a man of courage, justice and a man of God. I have so many memories of working with him and will remember him always.

  2. The ministries of Brother Cos drew me closer to the church in my early college life. He set a good example that Jesus is here and now and present in our daily lives. I was so fortunate that I came to Richmond just as Cos was getting the Dignity chapter started. I’ll always appreciate his influence in my life and my faith.

  3. To the family of Brother Cosmas Rubencamp:

    Brother Cosmas Rubencamp was an integral part of my life. I met him during the sexual minorities programs that were held at St. Paul’s Episcopal Church and at the Cathedral of the Sacred Heart in Richmond, VA in 1986. He was a dear friend with whom I will never forget.

    He has inspired so many people and I was glad to have known him. He has helped me to become better in my faith as a Roman Catholic.

  4. To Brother Cos’s family and the Xaverian Brothers,

    Brother Cos was truly a gentle giant of faith in action. I first met him through the Volunteer Ministry Community in Harrisonburg, Virginia, in 1976. Brother Cos was a founding father of that wonderful ministry, which shaped the lives of all the young adults who participated over the next 14 years. Since then he has always been there for any of us who were part of the VMC. It’s been an honor and a comfort to know him through all these years.

    Go with God, Brother Cos!

    Gratefully,
    Elaine Shurie Ogburn


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