Elise L. Pydynkowski

elise pydynkowski

October 9, 1959 ~ October 6, 2025


Resided in: Freedom, New Hampshire

Elise Lavoie Pydynkowski, 65, passed away peacefully on Monday, October 6, 2025 at home, surrounded by the love of her family. She was the loving wife of Kevin Pydynkowski, with whom she shared forty-two beautiful years of marriage, with more than fifty years shared together.

Born in Revere on October 9, 1959, she was the daughter of the late Gerard and Jean (Cody) Lavoie. Elise was raised and educated in Salem and was a graduate of Salem High School. She lived in Danvers for over twenty years, where she raised her family, before making her home in Freedom, New Hampshire, for the past decade.

Elise was an avid gardener who found joy in the outdoors and the simple beauty of nature. Going for a walk, having a fire, and spending time in the mountains or Ossipee lake were some of her favorite things. She loved people and helping others and had a knack for making friends out of strangers.  She was a loyal friend and fostered many lifelong and close friendships. Above all, she loved her family. She was absolutely devoted to her grandchildren, who were the light of her life. She loved life and brought joy, laughter and song everywhere she went.

She leaves three children: Kara Schwalbe and her husband, Kyle, of Billings, Montana; Kyle Pydynkowski and his wife, Michelle, of Raymond, New Hampshire; and Taryn Davis and her husband, Dylan, also of Raymond, New Hampshire. Elise was the cherished grandmother of Emmett, Wyatt, Ella, and Allie. She also leaves her siblings, Michele FitzGerald of Billerica, Gregg Lavoie of Wolfeboro, New Hampshire, Leanne Morin of Middleton, and Gary Lavoie of Alpine, Utah, as well as many nieces, nephews, and lifelong friends who will miss her dearly.

Visiting hours will be Thursday, October 16, 2025 from 4-7PM in C.R. Lyons & Sons Funeral Directors, 28 Elm St., Danvers Square. A service celebrating Elise’s life will be held Friday, October 17, 2025 at 10AM in the funeral home. In lieu of flowers, donations in her memory may be made to NH Lakes at 17 Chenell Drive, Suite One, Concord, NH 03301 or the Cholangiocarcinoma Foundation at 5526 West 13400 South, #510 Herriman, Utah 84096. To share an expression of sympathy with the Pydynkowski family, please visit www.LyonsFuneral.com.

Services

Visitation: Thursday, October 16, 2025 4:00 pm - 7:00 pm

C.R. Lyons & Sons Funeral Directors
28 Elm St.
Danvers, MA 01923

(978) 777-7900
lyonsfuneral.com

Service: Friday, October 17, 2025 10:00 am

C.R. Lyons & Sons Funeral Directors
28 Elm St.
Danvers, MA 01923

(978) 777-7900
lyonsfuneral.com

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Charities

The family greatly appreciates donations made to these charities in Elise L. Pydynkowski 's name.

Cholangiocarcinoma Foundation

5526 West 13400 South, #510

Herriman,

UT

84096

www.cholangiocarcinoma.org

NH Lakes

17 Chenell Drive, Suite One

Concord,

NH

03301

nhlakes.app.neoncrm.com

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  1. I’m so sorry to hear of Lisa’s passing. I remember Lisa as outgoing with a beautiful smile and someone who had a large group of friends.Reading her obituary tells me that she enjoyed a great family life. My condolences to her Husband and her children and grandchildren.Also to her siblings Leanne,Michele,Greg and Gary. May She Rest in Peace. God Bless Her Soul !! 🙏🙏🙏

  2. Dear Kevin and Family, Lisa was a beautiful person! (She will always be my “Lisa Lavoie”) So many memories and a beautiful “Lifelong Friendship ” from Pickering School and growing up in North Salem to marriages, children, grandchildren…..She had the best smile, the best laugh and the best heart!! We could always pick up where we left off..The sign of a true friendship! I will always carry her in my heart as a dear and special friend….With Sympathy and Love, Deb Day Tierney

  3. Elise was a truly special woman who would light up the room and made everyone she met feel special! I met my friend long ago and will forever treasure our friendship and the amazing woman she was. Our hearts are breaking for you Kevin and your family. May you rest in sweet peace dear Elise.

    With love and much sympathy, Denise and Ron Sarro

  4. Gary,
    So sorry to learn of your sister passing. My condolences to you and the entire Lavoie and Pydynkowski family. From an old friend from Salem.

  5. Taryn and family,

    Our sincere sympathies on the loss of your beloved Mother. She had a smile that would light up a room, a wonderful sense of humor and such love for her family. May all of your memories bring you peace and love.
    She will be your true Guardian Angel forever.

    With Love, Diane and Erin Rubchinuk

  6. Kevin
    My wife June and I are so sorry to hear about Elise. I am heart broken for you and the family. You and the rest of the family have seen too much sorrow in such a short time. There is no stronger group of people I know than the Pydynkowski family and I know in my heart you will get through this. It takes time and effort. The hurt may be less and less as time goes on but your love for Elise will never end. If you and the family need anything please let me know. The night sky is just a bit brighter now. Elise when you arrive I’m sure Bill and my Father will show you around. You have all of eternity ahead of you.
    Joe and June Marcus

  7. Taryn,
    I am so sorry for your loss. Praying today especially for peace, comfort, and strength for you and your family.
    Mitzi Murray

  8. Kevin, Gary and I are so sorry for your loss. Elise just lit up every place she was. A light has gone out in our neighborhood. We truly loved our camp fires, solving the world problems. We are here for you and you should be so very proud of the wonderful family you both have created. love Gary and Dianne


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