Judith M. Fairbank

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Judith M. (Berry) Fairbank, age 83, of Danvers, MA passed away on Friday, May 19, 2023 at Salem Hospital. She was the wife of Charles W. “Win” Fairbank, with whom she celebrated 60 years of marriage last August. The daughter of the late Helen “Honey” (Eagan) and Philip L. Berry, she was raised and educated in Peabody and a graduate of Peabody High School and Salem State College. She valued education highly and was proud to be the first person in her family to go to college. As a life-long learner, Judy avidly sought out knowledge on a wide variety of topics, kept up with politics and current events, and was eager to discuss new ways of thinking – especially with her grandchildren and those of younger generations. She was a progressive person who strongly believed in equality for all people which was evident in the way she treated everyone with kindness and compassion. Described aptly as “a warm hug in human form,’ she was also tough as nails, when the situation called for it. A teacher, a travel agent, and finally a Realtor for many years, Judy also volunteered her time to many political campaigns at the local, state and federal levels. She felt strongly that civic engagement was essential to our democracy. She loved any and all activities that included her friends, family and husband, Win. She enjoyed playing tennis and golf for many years at Salem Country Club, making great memories on family vacations, picnicking with Win on her favorite Northshore beaches, including Independence Park, Lynch Park and Singing Beach. Judy’s dedication to her family and friends made her a reliable source of support for so many. Through both celebratory and challenging life events, Judy was there for others. She attended every sports game, performance, birthday, ceremony, and graduation of her children and grandchildren. Any excuse to have a party and Judy was in, but her commitment remained unwavering when skies were gray. Her home was always open to anyone that needed a soft spot to land or simply a good chat. She provided a listening ear, a shoulder to cry on, problem-solving advice, and even a bit of tough love when necessary. She is survived by her husband Win, two daughters and sons-in-law, Susan Fairbank-Pitzer and her husband, Allen Pitzer of South Hamilton, MA, and Elizabeth “Beth” Robinson and her husband, Dean Robinson, currently of Atlanta GA. Judy was also the devoted “Nuna” of William Fairbank Pitzer and his wife, Maya Lior Pitzer, of Niskayuna, NY, Alexandra Fairbank Pitzer of South Hamilton, MA, Marissa Fairbank Robinson, Isabelle Fairbank Robinson, and Dana Fairbank Robinson, all of Atlanta, GA, as well as the great-grandmother of Daisy and Leo Charles Pitzer of Niskayuna, NY. She also leaves her sister, Cynthia Berry Luma, of Philadelphia, PA, her sister-in-law Joan Fairbank of Beverly, MA, her cousin Barbara (Condon) Connolly and her husband Brian, and many nieces, nephews, and extended family. She was predeceased by her brothers Stephen L. Berry and former Senator Frederick E. Berry. At Judy’s insistence, there will be no visitation or funeral. Instead, her wish was for those she loved to share stories and continue enjoying life in her memory. Loving memories of Judy will live on forever.

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  1. I have know Win for almost 40 years; we worked together in the paperboard industry a long, long time ago. Whenever we talked, he always spoke fondly of his wife, Judy. I never had the pleasure of meeting her but felt like I knew her because of the stories that Win shared. Judy sounded like a loving wife, mother and grandmother. I am sure she will be missed dearly. My condolences to those she left behind. Til you meet again . . .
    With heartfelt sympathy,
    Cindy Matteson Hoar (ex-Kahn)

  2. My husband and I were so fortunate to have known Judy as a neighbor and a friend for the last four years. We were so sad to hear of her passing, and especially sad to know that we will no longer be able to enjoy the conversations and, of course, laughs we shared!! We will miss your beautiful smile and wonderful personality! May you rest in peace, Judy!! ❤️ Love, Alice and Gil

  3. My wife, Beth, has known Judy since she was a child because of so many family connections. I first met Judy through her brother, Fred. Judy and Win’s home was always open to Fred and all of his friends… And that was impressive in an of itself, for our cast of characters!
    It was obvious from the beginning that Judy was much more than a positive influence in our lives. Simply witnessing her tireless efforts to help Fred overcome his many physical challenges to ultimately become a State Senator, was nothing short of amazing. She was always there for him, and if you needed help or advice, she was there for us as well. Not surprising, however, for anyone who knew Judy.. Her positive attitude, outgoing personality, and empathy toward others, were obvious to all who knew her.
    Our close relationship with Judy extended up to the time of her passing. Beth and I considered her to be a part of our family, and she will be deeply missed.
    Judy was a very easy person to love, always putting her family and friends first, and making you laugh in the process! She was a very special person.
    Judy… Thanks for making us, and all of those whose lives you have touched better people! Sincere condolences to Win, Susan, Beth and your entire family. May Judy rest in peace.

    Jim and Beth McGivern

  4. It has been many years since I saw Judy, but I recognized that beautiful smile immediately. I remember Judy from many visits to her parents store and since we shared the same last name we called ourselves cousins and her parents were Aunt Honey and Uncle Phil. Even after so many years, I can still remember the joy I got from the entire Berry family. Judy also babysat for us on occasion and that was always a treat. After 52 years of marriage, I still have the wedding card from Judy’s parents and adorable poem that Phil wrote to me.

    My sincere condolences to Win and all of Judy’s family!

  5. Susie, I am saddened to learn of your mom’s passing. My sincere condolences to you, Beth, your dad, and your extended family. I am blessed to have known her🙏🏻

  6. Dear Robinsons and Fairbanks,
    I could not agree more that Judy could be described as a warm hug in human form. I will always remember her for her kindness, her bright smile, her warmth, and her energy. She was a third grandmother to Addie, Birch, and Keira. They were so lucky to spend their early years in Beth’s care with Judy’s help. First thing Addie and Birch say is they remember going to her house for cookies on a regular basis. We all miss her and are thinking of her entire, wonderful family at this time. Sending you all a hug, Kristin and Jamie, Addie, Birch, Keira


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