RAYMOND DEFABIO

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Raymond J. DeFabio, 83, died Sunday evening, August 16, 2009. He was the loving husband of the late Joanne (Lauritsen) DeFabio, with whom he shared 43 years of marriage. Born in Bridgeport, CT on June 23, 1926, he was the son of the late Joseph and Mary (Leahy) DeFabio. He was raised and educated in Bridgeport and was a graduate of the University of Bridgeport where he was a member of Alpha Gamma Phi Fraternity. Mr. DeFabio served honorably in the U.S. Navy during World War II. Mr. DeFabio was employed as a Purchasing Manager for General Electric at the RiverWorks plant in Lynn, where he retired after thirty-three years of service. A Danvers resident since 1961, he was an active member and founding parishioner of Saint Richard Parish. He enjoyed spending time with his grandchildren, gardening, and following the local sports teams. An avid golfer, he was for a number of years a member at the Ferncroft Country Club and in more recent years enjoyed playing golf at the New Meadows Golf Club. He is survived by his children: Barbara DeFabio of Peabody, Jill Akerman and her husband Christopher of Danvers, and Duane DeFabio of Georgia, two grandchildren, Adam and Connor Akerman, many nieces and nephews, and a loving extended family. He was predeceased by a sister, Margaret Becker. Mr. DeFabio’s Funeral Mass will be celebrated on Friday, August 21, 2009 at 9AM in Saint Richard Parish, 90 Forest St., Danvers. Burial will follow in Annunciation Cemetery, Danvers. Relatives and friends are invited. Visiting hours are Thursday from 4-8PM in C.R. Lyons & Sons, Funeral Directors, 28 Elm St., Danvers Square. In lieu of flowers, donations in his memory may be made to the Visiting Nurses Association, 5 Federal Street, Danvers, MA, 01923, or the Jimmy Fund, 10 Brookline Place West, 6th Fl., Brookline, MA 02445.

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  1. Our deepest sympathy, thoughts and prayers are with you at this very sad time. Love, Elena, Chris, Jack, Ryan and Sean Bergin

  2. May God be even closer to you and your family during this time. Please know that we are keeping you in our prayers.

  3. Your dad was such a sweet man who always made me feel at home. He was like everyone’s dad – always looking out for us. I remember he always warned us to look for the exits when we went out to the clubs 😉 We would laugh, but he was so right and I’ll be warning my own daughter about that. So sorry for your loss.

  4. I’m so sorry to hear that Uncle Ray is gone. But we all know that his spirit, laughter, jokes and teasing will be with us forever. I wish I could be there with the whole family for his funeral, but my prayers will be with him and all of you during these tough times. I am even more grateful now that Uncle Ray attended our Lauritsen family reunion last summer, because so many of us who live so far away were able to be with him one last time. He is why I remain a rabid Red Sox fan. I am grateful for that, too, though some people may consider it a curse. We all loved Uncle Ray and will never stop loving him. May Bobbie, Duane and Jill and the rest of the family find peace. Bless you all . . . Kevin

  5. My family’s prayers go out to the DeFabio family at this time. May the joy of knowing your father is in a better place overcome the sadness that you are facing at this time. God Bless You. The Kobetich Family

  6. To the Defabio family, we have to come to know Duane over many years as a friend and a business associate. Unfortunately, we never had the honor to meet his father. We just want to express our sincere condolences to your family on your loss.

  7. I was so sorry to hear of your loss. Uncle Ray was truly one of kind and we will all miss him – his silliness, his laughter and his love of family. I won’t be able to make the service but please know that you are all in my thoughts.

  8. our deepest sympathies go to all your family with the passing of ray. i will always remember him as a kind, gentle and happy man. it is the knowing that makes the living so wonderful. all our love, cheryl, ron, tj and erica stapleton

  9. My deepest sympathies are with the DeFabio family now. I know how much he was loved as I am privileged to work with his beautiful daughter Barbara. Barbara is a true reflection of her father’s love. She is a hardworking, kind, compassionate and considerate person who always puts her family first. She and her siblings are a wonderful testament to the love and care that went into their upbringing. I am blessed to know his daughter and thank both he and his wife for their living legacy’s. May he rest in peace. May the family’s hearts be lightened with God’s love. God Bless you all. Sincerely Kelei D. Waltz JoDee M. Waltz Kyra A. Waltz


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