Raymond J. Haight
December 28, 1939 ~ May 22, 2014
Raymond Joesph “Ray” Haight, 74 , a lifelong Salem resident, passed away peacefully at his home on Thursday May 22, 2014 surrounded by his loving family. He was a devoted husband of Barbara (Ross) Haight, with whom he shared 51 wonderful years of marriage and raised three children together.
Born in Salem on December 28, 1939, he was the son of the late Charles and Margaret Haight. He was raised in Salem and attended Salem Public Schools.
Ray worked hard to provide for his family. He was a baker for many years , and a machinist at A.W. Chesterton in Groveland, Ma. He most recently worked for Houseworks as a handyman in his retirement years.
As a devoted husband, father and grandfather, Ray dedicated his time to his family. He showed his support by giving encouragement and being involved with driving the drum corps buses, coaching sports, and cheering them on from the sidelines.
Ray loved traveling with his wife and family, taking several cruises and even traveling to Hawaii and Europe. He was well-known for his passion for baking, especially his contribution to the annual October fair at the Unitarian Universalist Church where he prepared over 150 apples pies yearly. He was an avid sports fan and a Patriots season ticket holder. He enjoyed traveling to the games in the RV with his family and friends. Ray enjoyed playing darts for a local state champion dart team “The Smokers”.
Ray was a longtime member of the North Shore Unitarian Universalist Church in Danvers and one of the founders of the Salem Youth Soccer program. As a member of the Polish Club in Danvers, he volunteered his time and was willing to help with any task. Ray was also a member of the Peabody VFW Post 1011 Men’s Auxiliary where he served as the treasurer.
Ray was involved in the theatre community. As a volunteer for The North Shore Players, he worked both behind the scenes with set design and lighting as well as performed on stage. For over 25 years both him and his wife Barbara volunteered as ushers at the North Shore Music Theatre.
In addition to his wife, he leaves three children, his daughter Heidi (Haight) Raymond and her husband Manuel Raymond III and their children Kayla and Courtney, his son John Haight and his wife Heather (Frieman) Haight and their children Matthew, Cameron, and John Jr. and his son Malcolm Haight and his wife Emily (Rocha) Haight and their children Cynthia, Jane, and Ross, his sister Mary Murray of NH, his beloved nephew William Murray, his foster-son Gary Nicholaides, and Ulrika, the Swedish exchange student who he loved as a daughter.
His Funeral Service will be Thursday, May 29, 2014 at 11AM in the Northshore Unitarian Universalist Church, Locust St., Danvers. Relatives and friends are invited. Visiting hours are Wednesday from 4-8 in C.R. Lyons & Sons, Funeral Directors, 28 Elm St., Danvers Square. Ray’s passion for animals is expressed through his request that in lieu of flowers, donations in Ray’s name may be to the Northeast Animal Shelter 347 Highland Ave Salem, MA 01970, online at northeastanimalshelter.org.
To Barb and the rest of his family….my thought and prayers are with you!
So many great memories of Ray and his hijinx at AWC…..we were famous for our buckets of water, for special occassions, and for just about anything we felt we could make a special occassion…..one particular memory of a bucket was one hot summer day, I had a bucket, and he welcomed it, figuring it was going to cool him off….he didnt know I filled it with hot water…..he was so disappointed, but we sure got a laugh from it…..we lost track of each other after he left AWC, but I will never forget the devilish smile, and the twinkle in those eyes…we had a blast together….RIP Ray….you will be missed
Dear Haight family,
It is so sad to read that Mr. Haught has passed away. May your memories of him as well as a hope of being reunited one day – John 5:28,29 – bring you the peace and comfort you need at this time.
Ray helped with set building for the North Shore Players in Danvers many times. He was always very generous with his time, and workmanship talents. A man of good humor and positive relationships, on every occasion that I was with him. His contributions to the North Shore Players will be long remembered and appreciated.
Dear Barbara,
I remember Ray from the North Shore Players, where I used to perform with my Grandmother, Gloria Spang. He was such a nice, hard working person…always there with a helping hand. Many thoughts are I with you and your family.
Nicole (Nicki) Walsh
Dear Barbara:
Ray was just such a sweetheart, and hard worker. We put together and ripped apart so many sets. I still remember directing him in Gorilla… he was the best lurch type ever, embarrassed, and cute, and funny, and shy. So hard to hear that he is no longer just there. I send hugs to your son, and you, I know you must be hurting, and you are such a trooper yourself… JUst remembering all the sets that wouldn’t have happened without him, all the lights which wouldn’t have gone on, the spotlights that wouldn’t have been working. Oh Ray… You are missed….. Love Patty and John Gutta
Lit a candle in memory of Raymond J. Haight
Dear Haight Family. I am sorry to hear about the loss of your beloved Husband/Father and Grandfather. My thoughts and prayers are with you all at this most difficult time.
Sincerely
Cynthia (Greaves) Quinn
Dear Haight Family. I had the honor of working with Ray at Chesterton in Groveland.He was the nicest,funniest man I met.My thoughts and prayers are with the family during this time. R I P Ray.Your going to be missed
Mickey H
Dear Barbara,
I am sorry that I did not meet Ray earlier in my life. In the five years that I have been a member of NSUU, I have come to know him as a kind, thoughtful and helpful man. He did so much for the church in his quiet and modest way. I will really miss seeing him.
Marcia
Victor R. purchased the Rose Remembrance for the family of Raymond J. Haight.
Barbara – Please accept our most heartfelt sympathies for your loss. Ray was such a nice guy. He will be missed.Our thoughts are with you and your family during this difficult time.
Jack & Carole Keough
Dear Barbara and Gary,
Sending you my prayers and condolences to you and your family. Please let me know if there is anything we can do to support you during your time of need. So sorry for your great loss.
Marie McCarthy
Sweet Liberty was purchased for the family of Raymond J. Haight.
Lit a candle in memory of Raymond J. Haight
To all members of the Haight family very sorry for your loss. Ed Moreira and Elaine Walsh