William H. Dillon
August 22, 2024
Born in:
Boston, Massachusetts
Resided in:
Peabody, Massachusetts
Bill Dillon, former Reading and Gloucester resident, passed away August 22, 2024 at the age of 85. He was the beloved husband of Marilyn for nearly 64 years, brother of Phil Dillon (Nancy) of Kansas City, father of Robin Ardito (Frank) of Boston, Karen Dillon Perez (Richard) of Brookline, and Bill (Laura) of Lynnfield, grandfather of Annie (Sergio), Molly, Rebecca, Emma, and Olivia, father-figure to many (including Donna Belanger Bowie), numerous nephews and nieces, and friend to countless others. Bill was predeceased by his sister Rosemary Dillon Foote.
What Bill accomplished in his life is remarkable considering the difficult circumstances of his early life. The son of William and Susan (Park) Dillon, Bill was born and raised in humble conditions in inner city Boston and Cambridge. After the early death of his father, he and his two siblings were sent to live in Prendergast Preventorium in Mattapan, an outdoor, year-round (including a New England winter!) “school” for children who had been exposed to tuberculosis. After Prendergast, his mother struggled to provide stability for her children, frequently moving the children to be closer to family and friends who helped support them. Eventually, he was selected to attend Farm & Trade School on Thompson Island in Boston Harbor. The school had been established by a group of Boston philanthropists to create a home and school for at-risk boys (principally orphans or boys with single parents). So, while he was within eyesight of the Boston skyline, he was being instructed in agriculture, carpentry, and “other useful occupations”. No one expected the boys educated at Farm & Trade to aspire to more than that (students “graduated” in 10th grade), but Bill was an excellent student and athlete, and he was able to chart a path that led to Huntington Prep and then to a B.S. in chemical engineering and later an MBA at Northeastern University. Bill chose to celebrate his 70th birthday with his family on Thompson Island, a reminder of how far he’d come.
Before embarking on his career as an engineer, he served in active duty as a first lieutenant in the U.S. Army, where he earned the nickname “Can Do Dillon” for his positive attitude and optimism, which, in turn, became a lifelong Dillon family motto. After the Army, he spent the majority of his career as a manager at Polaroid where he was known as a creative and compassionate leader and ultimately rose to the position of Plant Manager of the Waltham facility. Bill remained friends with some of his Polaroid colleagues for his whole life.
Bill was a man who exuded a love of life. While navigating a demanding job, he still prioritized being an “all in” family man, leaving for work every morning in his red Volkswagen Beetle with a cup of Sanka in hand before any of his children were awake so that he could be sure to be home in time for family dinner, which he never missed. He made time for an endless array of family activities–camping, hiking, teaching each of his children (and later grandchildren) to ski, Red Sox games, boating and lobstering, group runs and bikes. He encouraged and shared the passions of his children and grandchildren, creating unique adventures for each one and encouraging each of them to “live your dreams”. He and Marilyn made sure their home in Gloucester was always a welcoming sanctuary for both family and friends. He once spent a summer working all hours of the day to grow giant pumpkins for his grandchildren to carve on Halloween. He installed a koi pond in his yard when one of his grandchildren mentioned an interest in koi fish. He would sit side by side with grandchildren for hours doing art projects with them. His extended family’s homes are filled with handmade chess boards, desks, chests and other wood-working projects that he lovingly made for them over the years.
In his later years, Bill explored new passions, making countless friends along the way and inspiring others. He hiked the entire Appalachian Trail under the trail name “the Gloucester Hare” with one of his friends from Polaroid. He and Marilyn traveled extensively, eventually visiting every continent and “seizing the day” on each adventure, including dancing the tango with Marilyn in Buenos Aires, donning swim trunks for a dip in the ocean near Antarctica and climbing the Sydney Harbor Bridge. He fulfilled “bucket list” goals and new challenges, including skydiving, running three marathons, becoming a certified EMT, a Family Court mediator, an elder care ombudsman, and one of his happiest moments – attending the Superbowl with his younger brother, Phil. Having craved an artistic outlet for his entire life, he finally uncovered his artistic talent as he taught himself woodcarving and joined the Cape Ann Wood Artisans Guild. Specializing in carving and painting birds, he earned several awards and a professional commission as a carver. Many family members and friends prize the carvings he made for them.
In Brooksby Village, where he lived with Marilyn for the last ten years of his life, he became a valued member of the community, known to all as a kind man and a good friend. He created the men’s coffee club, became known for his stunning morning glory garden, and started the Brooksby’s Parkinson’s support group, which was the source of great comfort to other residents and their families affected by the disease. He also nurtured a latent love of writing poetry, publishing many original poems in the Brooksby newspaper.
Bill will be remembered for his optimism, strength, kindness, and most of all, how much he loved – and was loved by – his family. It’s impossible to summarize Bill’s life in a few words. Perhaps it can be best expressed this way: he was a good man. His was, by any measure, a life well lived.
The family will be holding a private service. In lieu of flowers, contributions can be made in Bill’s honor to the Appalachian Mountain Club at https://www.outdoors.org/donate/tribute-gifts/ , the Michael J. Fox Foundation at https://give.michaeljfox.org/give/421686/#!/donation/checkout, or the Brooksby Village Resident Care Fund, 100 Brooksby Village Dr., Peabody, MA 01960. Arrangements are by C.R. Lyons & Sons Funeral Directors, 28 Elm St., Danvers. Guestbook available at www.LyonsFuneral.com.
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The family greatly appreciates donations made to these charities in William H. Dillon 's name.
Appalachian Mountain Club
Brooksby Village Resident Care Fund
100 Brooksby Village Dr
Peabody,
MA
01960
I am so truly sorry for your loss and may happier memories be a comfort to you. It is truly the hardest part of our lives losing those we love so much. Grief truly is the price of love. I am so very sorry.
Thank you Charlene for your kindness. Marilyn and Dillon Family
My condolences. He was the original excellent Bill and he will be deeply missed.
Thank you Jennifer for your kind words. Marilyn and the Dillon Family.
To my Dad “D”…you will always be the shining star in my world. Your love and support throughout my life is so deeply appreciated and I will miss you dearly. My fond memories of our life on Virginia Road brings me much happiness. You and Mom “D” treated me like your own daughter and for that I am truly grateful. I will remember the mountain hikes, sleepovers at your house, riding on your Volkswagen Beetle sideboard when you came home from work, boat rides in Gloucester and so many more happy times! Love you until we meet again!! xoxo Donna (aka Robert Dubrunsky) 🙂
Thank you Donna for your caring and generosity. You are indeed very special to us all. Mum “D” and the family
Bill was the best brother a man could ever have.
I have so many fond memories of him.
I remember simple things like playing stickball with him on Chatham Street. He always won, but that never really mattered to me. The fact that he was willing to make time for me in his life was what really mattered.
I have fond memories of Sundays at Christ Episcopal Church. Bill and I served as acolytes, with him leading the morning procession withe the cross and me at the tail end of the procession carrying a candle snuffer I used at the end the service. I always found great comfort seeing him at the head of the procession.
There’s one memory of Bill that has had a profound impact on my life. We spent a few years in a preventorium in Mattapan for children who had been exposed to Tuberculosis. It was an institutional setting and I hated it. We rarely saw one another, even though we were brothers and we were family. The pain of separation was acute, especially at bedtime. I slept at one end of a long barracks like room and he slept at the far end with the older kids. When the arrangement started I pleaded with the adult supervisors, “I want to be with my brother…please get me close to him.” They would tell me to be quiet and I’d cry myself to sleep. At some point in the process I told Bill how lonely I was not being close to him. I’m not sure how he did it, within a few days of my telling him the adults moved me to a place quite close to him. I don’t know how he did, but I know that somehow he made it happen. After that I’d see him waving in my direction, which I took as a sign that everything was somehow going to turn out right. Nothing was going to separate us as brothers.
Bill was so special. He was the best of the best!
He’s in heaven now and I’m planning on seeing him there sooner or later. When that time comes I’m looking forward to some great adventures. Who knows? Perhaps a game of heavenly stickball will be on the schedule.
Phil – please know that Rev. Lisle read your tribute at his funeral service. How special your bond as brothers always has been. We know you will be reunited in heaven one day. Thank you for sharing. Marilyn and the Dillon family.
Rest in peace, Brother!
Marilyn & Family & Phil
My heart is breaking to hear this very sad news. I had planned on visiting this summer but my health was not the best & as each day went by I vowed that next summer would be the time I would go. I will forever cherish the time I spent with Bill & with Marilyn when they came to visit his moms (Aunt Susie’s) home in Newfoundland & when I visited them in Gloucester. We will meet again one day Bill & there are still so many things we have to talk about but until then you will always be in my heart & on my mind. Love you dear cousin
Daphne – thank you for your thoughts and kindness. Marilyn and the Dillon family.
Thank you for your service to our country, Sir. Job well done and it’s now time to Rest In Peace. May God Bless You and your family.
~Salute~
VFW Post 1012, Medford, MA
To Marilyn, Phil Family Siblings & Relations I have great and happy memories of Bill who was my manager in W-5 at Polaroid he was the kindness guy I ever knew. My story is a very happy tale in 1983 I was in a terrible accident in a hit & run I was in traction for seven weeks I had to learn how to walk & Therapy for all of nine Months Bill came to see my Wife, Noreen, he told her he would send her a check every week until I was ready to return to work. Bill was a very special person he loved Baseball & Basketball he played hard everybody in W-5 thought he was a great Manager we went to see him in Peabody a couple times he was always upbeat then I stopped driving long trips. I will remember him as a great friend to me and my Family may you rest in Peace. Bill. John Noreen Prendergast & Family.
John – Thank you for your thoughts and kind words. We’ve often thought of you and your family and are happy that Bill made such an impact in your life. If nothing else he was kind and wanted the best for all those he cared about. Hope you continue to be well. Marilyn and the Dillon family.
Thank you for the tribute!
I met Mr. Dillon for the first time about 12 years ago. My wife, Donna grew up with the Dillon family and always expressed how much a part of their family she has always felt. It was clear for me when I first met him why she felt a part of their family… He was knowledgeable in multiple areas and kind…the type of person that you could talk to in a way that he wanted you to succeed in the conversation. He didn’t judge anyone, but he did expect honesty, and demanded integrity. I’m happy to have known him…I wish my time in his life was longer. I’m proud to have known such a person. Rest in peace…
Thank you for your tribute and kindness Gabe. We are so happy that you are part of our lives and that you are meant to be for our Donna. Marilyn and the Dillon family.
You will be so very dearly missed Grampy Dillon. Thank you for all you did in your life and for being family to mom and I. I love you so much and I hope you keep watch over all of us from above ❤️
Thank you Erin for your thoughts and kind words. It’s been joyful watching you become the wonderful woman you are today – both Grampy and I have been grateful to be part of your life. Grammy D. and the Dillon family.
I am so very sorry for your loss. A really beautiful tribute to a man who made time for his family special and truly lived a full and loving life.
Thank you Susan for your thoughts and kind words. Marilyn and the Dillon family.
What an extraordinary life! May you find comfort in recalling your father’s goodness.
Thank you for your thoughts and kind words Christina. Marilyn and the Dillon family.
Dear Robin and Family – I am so sorry to learn of the passing of your Dad. He seemed like an amazing man based on his biography. Looked like he truly lived life and you are all so lucky to have had such a great person in all of your lives. Thinking of you, Robin and saying prayers for you and your family. -Steve Harrington
Thank you Steve for your thoughts and kinds words. Marilyn and the Dillon family.
Deepest sympathy to all of you from all of us.